GENDER  DIFFERENCES  IN  LISTENING

 

 

MEN

 

WOMEN

 

 

Talk and interrupt more

 

Listening as an opportunity to personally connect

 

Interrupt more for conversational control

 

 

Listen to show interest

Ask questions to acquire info

 

Ask questions to keep the conversation going

Talk is direct succinct, task oriented

 

Bring up more topics to talk about

Require more personal space

 

Talk indirect, elaborate – affective expressions used

Display more signs of power

 

Show more signs of interpersonal liking

More instrumental, factual, analytical

 

Expressive, paying attention to relationship

Listening seen as one down behavior

 

Confirm the others ideas

Hear the facts – are task oriented

 

Aware of the mood of the conversation